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  • Writer: mahnoor nadeem
    mahnoor nadeem
  • Nov 3, 2022
  • 2 min read

We all have it.


The feeling. The fear. Test anxiety.


We've all experienced it, whether you know it or not. When the big day comes, we get butterflies in our stomachs, our palms sweat, and we feel like a million things are running through our heads. We start to second-guess ourselves

  • What if I don't do well?

  • What if I forget about a question?

  • What if I mess up my answers?

But here's the thing: test anxiety is normal! It happens to everyone. And here's the best part: it's avoidable! That's right: there are things you can do to make sure that you don't suffer from the dreaded "butterflies in your stomach" feeling when it comes time to take your next exam (or even when taking a test just for fun).


In this article, I want to share with you some of my favorite techniques for reducing test anxiety—and helping you feel confident in your abilities! This guide will explore some of the science behind test anxiety and offer some practical tips and techniques for reducing it. Test anxiety is a type of performance anxiety. It is a fear of failure or of not being able to meet the demands of the test situation. This can lead to a spiral of negative thinking, which can further increase anxiety and lead to even poorer performance.


The reason behind test anxiety can vary from person to person. It may be due to a previous negative experience, such as a bad grade on a previous test. It may also be due to perfectionism or a fear of failure. Whatever the reason, it is important to remember that everyone experiences anxiety in different ways and to different degrees.


Several Cognitive and Behavioral Techniques can be used to reduce test anxiety. These include:


  • Cognitive restructuring: This involves challenging and changing the negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to test anxiety.


  • Relaxation techniques: These can help to reduce the physical symptoms of anxiety, such as muscle tension and rapid breathing.


  • Visualization: This involves picturing oneself completing the task at hand. This can help to increase confidence and reduce anxiety.


In addition to CBT, Several other techniques can be used to reduce test anxiety. These include:


  • Get plenty of sleep the night before the test

  • Eat a healthy breakfast on the day of the test

  • Avoid caffeine and other Stimulants

  • Take some time to relax and clear your mind before the Test

  • Use positive affirmations to boost your confidence

  • Talk to yourself through a mirror


Conclusion

Test anxiety is a genuine and common issue for students of all ages. It can be debilitating, preventing students from performing to their fullest potential. But some things can be practiced to reduce test anxiety. This guide has explored some of the science behind test anxiety and offered some practical tips and techniques for reducing it. If you are struggling with test anxiety, please remember that you are not alone. There are several resources available to help you.

 
 
 
  • Writer: mahnoor nadeem
    mahnoor nadeem
  • Nov 2, 2022
  • 2 min read

Memories can be influenced by experiences we have in the present Are you able to trust the memories of your childhood?


"Memories are malleable, varying little each time we rethink them, like stories," Loveday said. When we remember memorable events, they are affected by our perceptions, mindset and the society we live in, which can offer us fresh perspectives on life events. "Memory is the activation of neural networks in the brain that are continually being changed," she said. "As a result, new elements can be effortlessly incorporated into each memory, while current elements can be altered or lost."



Though carrying false childhood memories may impact you more than you believe. Events and experiences we recall from early life can shape us as adults and define our likes, dislikes, and behavior.


Your memory can tell you in detail and feel 100% correct, but that doesn't matter. It can easily be some or all of your brain's lies. The personal experience you want your brain to keep a secret is not what you believe it is. Your memory is pieces of information that your brain has pieced together to help you, not to describe the past, but to give you information that might be helpful in the present.


Our emotions can distort memories


If you've ever attempted to recall the details of an emotionally charged event, you probably know that emotions can wreak havoc on your memory. Sometimes strong feelings can make an experience more unique, but other times they can lead to false memories.

The studies found that people remember events linked with strong emotions more quickly, but the details of those memories were often uncertain. Retelling significant events can also lead to false beliefs about memory accuracy.



Moreover, in a recent study, Brainard and Rayner found that emotions distort the memory of children and adults, mainly when events carry negative emotions. They also found that children were less likely to have false memories of negative events but more likely to have false memories as they got older.

 
 
 
  • Writer: mahnoor nadeem
    mahnoor nadeem
  • Nov 1, 2022
  • 3 min read

I've seen people with an enormous love for spooky items since childhood. While I didn't know it then, I can outline their anxiety back to their childhood period. It wasn't until recently that I discovered this overlapping might look odd. Not everyone with anxiety is attracted to scary things, but many of them, even those diagnosed, share a desire for the eerie. When I step back and understand it as a mental health condition, I recognize that it may make much more sense than one may consider. Here are several reasons to help you unravel the secret of why people who run anxious still run toward spooky things.


Play

Many Americans link scary things with Halloween and the spooky autumn season. Even after COVID-19, most Americans participate and have done so for years. Outfits, creativity, and stepping out of daily norms gather the ideal potion for playfulness. Imaginative play has been connected to mental wellness and can be a self-care approach to adulthood.


Nostalgia

For those who have celebrated Halloween, it may stimulate nostalgia. It may be likely for those who have undergone anxiety in later years and those without having a childhood trauma. Even for those who choose to partake as an adult and did not as a child, this permission to play allows the inner child to explore and for the adult self to reap the benefits.


Familiarity

Halloween reminds us to consider our fears. People with anxiety don't need a day on the calendar for that thought; their minds are already there. Halloween may be seen as an unnecessary incremental addition of fear to an anxiously overloaded plate. Still, people living with anxiety are well-acquainted with fear.


Normalization

On a typical day, people who live with anxiety disorders are balancing their thoughts, striving to determine the fine line between reflection and rumination. People with anxiety tend to be isolated with their obsessive inner dialogue that sends the message that it is inappropriate to have emotions, much less to explore your deepest fears. Yet, on Halloween, all things eerie rise from the darkness, and the experience of being frightened is normalized.


Connection

Fear being normalized in spooky season, the door to connection open. People who live with anxiety may feel the invitation to address the monsters under the bed. It may be an inward exploration but it morphs into an external form. Some may lean into metaphors and archetypes to connect with themselves and others through the portals of costume, décor, television, books, and movies.


Empowerment

People who live with an anxiety disorder struggle with the unknown. To some extent, with safety in mind, Halloween provides exposure to fear. For example, when you watch a scary movie, you might be frightened. By viewing the trailer or sometimes simply hearing the title, you set your expectations of what type of alarm to anticipate, such as a ghost strolling in the background or a creep peeking into the window flush at the center of the screen. people who live with anxiety get to experience a closed cycle of anticipation, approach, startle, and comfort. The decision to spin through this may feel empowering, and that sense of accomplishment may also spill over into one's perceived abilities to manage anxiety.


I hope these examples have helped you know why people with anxiety may love Halloween. Remember, everyone's experience is unique. It doesn't mean that all who have anxiety will be drawn to horror or that it is healthy. What one may masquerade during the spooky season may be an overwhelming fear for others.


 
 
 
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