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The Realities of One sided love and How to Start Moving On

  • Writer: mahnoor nadeem
    mahnoor nadeem
  • Dec 1, 2022
  • 2 min read

A Broken Heart is the Worst Thing to Suffer


One-sided love is basically the feeling of loving someone who doesn't feel the same way you do. In a nutshell, one-sided love can be described as frenetic or any kind of attraction, but it is also true love.


This feeling is for those who do not return your feelings. People who experience one-sided love have deep hope that someday that special someone will love them too. The person you fell in love with may not be your exact match. He/she may live in another city, or may be too old or too young to find a match for you. He or she may have feelings for someone else or may simply not be ready for a relationship.

Unrequited love can despair of caring for someone who doesn't feel that way for you. love is possible.


The darling may consciously reject a one-sided lover or be unaware of the suitor's romantic affection for him.


There are different reasons why people fall out of love. Some people say that it is the worst thing to suffer from. It can be devastating and can cause pain and suffering. It is tough to stop loving someone. But there are ways to stop falling in love with them and move on with your life.


Here are few tips on how you can get over someone you used to love:


1. Accept that they don't feel the same about you as you do.

2. Stop hanging out with them or having any contact with them at all

3. Focus on yourself and things that make you happy, like hobbies, friends, etc.

4. Find healthy ways to express your hurt.

5. Question your hurt feelings.

6. Name your emotions and feelings

7. Manage your behaviour.

8. Focus on well-being.

9. Be honest with yourself.

10. Find a trustworthy confidante.

11. Reframe the experience.

12. Practice radical acceptance.

13. Practice radical self-care.

14. Don't play the blame game.

15. Allow yourself to grieve what you've lost.

16. Break the ties that bind you.

17. Marie Kondo everything that reminds you of them.

18. Make a list of qualities you want to have in your partner.

19. Until you meet this person, enjoy being single!

20. You can stop loving someone who doesn't love you.


 
 
 

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